The Surprising Advantage of Having No Network
Why strangers often support you faster than people you already know.
One of the most common worries people have when they try to build something new is this:
“I don’t have an audience.”
Many people assume success belongs to those who already have a network. They picture creators with large followings, strong connections, or an established group of supporters ready to encourage their next idea.
Over the years, I have learned something surprising.
You often do your best business with strangers.
This lesson came to me many years ago, long before I ever thought about writing online or publishing books.
In 2006, I had just moved to Alberta. I did not know anyone there. No friends, no professional contacts, and no network.
At the same time, I had just gotten my mortgage broker’s license.
I remember telling the broker I was working with that I felt at a disadvantage. I had just arrived in the province and did not know a single potential client.
She said something I have never forgotten.
“You will do your best business with strangers.”
At the time, that advice sounded counterintuitive. Most people assume the opposite is true. Support is expected to come first from the people who already know us.
Experience eventually proved that she was right.
Strangers meet you where you are now.
They do not carry expectations about who you used to be. They do not see the version of you that existed ten or twenty years ago. They simply encounter the work you are doing today.
A decision follows. The work either resonates with them or it does not.
Reinvention later in life often feels complicated for this exact reason.
People who have known you for years often continue to see the earlier versions of you. They remember the job you held, the role you played, and the way things used to be.
No ill intention exists in that reaction. Human nature tends to freeze people in familiar roles.
Strangers approach the situation differently.
Strangers meet the version of you that exists right now.
They see the writer you are today.
They see the ideas you are sharing today.
They see the work you are creating today.
In many ways, strangers allow you to become who you are becoming.
The absence of a network may not be the disadvantage many people believe it is.
Someone starting a newsletter, a business, a book, or a new direction in life does not need approval from everyone they already know.
The world is full of people who have never met you before.
Sometimes the people who believe in your next chapter are the ones who never knew your previous one.
A thought to leave with you:
Have you ever noticed that strangers sometimes support your ideas faster than people who have known you for years?
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